23 December 2013

Insecure

Have you ever felt as insecure as I do? I bet you do.

Have you ever felt that you're getting judged for everything you do?
Like, when you get on the bus. It seems like everyone is staring at you, at your face, the way you dressed and your height.
Like, when you walk on the street and you're like, wow, pretty girls are walking past you and you're like the only ugly duckling walking on that street.

We are all humans, we do feel insecure. We are imperfect, we have flaws here and there. We can do anything. and I really mean nothing, to be perfect. No matter what we do, we get judged by people every single day.

For a picture that we posted online, how we eat and of course, how we look.
I'm always being called 'short'. I am short indeed but, I just don't feel so good about it. I mean, I don't have an option in what height I wanna be. I can't choose how I want to look like and I can't choose how skinny I am. I'm born this way.

Ladies out there, it's okay if you're not as pretty as another 'her'. Not as talented, tall or skinny.
You're just you, one and only in this whole universe. Even if anyone that has the same appearance as you, your attitude towards things and the things you do will definitely be different.
Do you know that those who are tall wants to be short cause they think that being short is way cuter than being tall?
Do you know that girls who have curly hair want straight hair while those who have straight hair want to have curly hair?

Gentlemen, if you're not at an average height or you're just different from all your friends, it's alright.
You don't have to feel as if you're a weirdo or what so ever cause we all have the same coloured blood.
"Eeee, why you don't have abs?" "Why you so short?" "Why you look like a bamboo stick?"
If they try to make you feel bad about yourself, tell yourself. I'm born this way.

You don't need to have a pretty face, you just need a pretty heart.
You don't need to be tall, you're just the way you are.
You don't need to be someone else cause you're who you are.

It's quite difficult to increase your self-esteem but just remember, love yourself for who you are cause you're born this way. God chose to create you this way, for the flaws you have too.
We are always unsatisfied about how we are.

Love yourself for who you are. 


Thank you for reading!